The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Want to try DP, but not with hubby in my ass

F16AV8R · 11-05-2004, 09:54 AM

I cannot tell you how much I appreciate all of the thoughtful posts and advice you great people have provided here. I think I used the term "circus-sized" as opposed to stating actual measurements because no one would believe it until they have seen it. Frankly, I have never seen a penis this large before and it is more of a problem than a blessing. In fact, it has been a big problem. I indeed want to give all of myself to my husband. I love him. I am willing to try the recommendations you have suggested but I am not talking about a 9 or 10 inch penis that is a little extra thick here. It is massive and although I am not really in pain per se when we have regular sex, the internal pressure from so much being inside of me is distracting at times. I think we'll try a few more times and I'll give it the old college try. If it doesn't work, oh well, there is so much more to our relationship that is so wonderful I can go without the DP. It is indeed fun and very pleasurable having vaginal sex with him when we go slowly at first and have had a few drinks. If he is not insistent about going all the way in, it can feel incredible. When he gets excited though and trys to pound in deep, the pleasure quickly turns to pain. I want to try a penis anally and wish it could be him. If he were shorter and not as thick, we could do it. Again, we'll give it the old college try. Still, the mere length and girth of his penis gives me serious doubt we'll get much past the head of the penis. I think if he were to allow a smaller penis to take me anally (lets say 8 or 9 inches) he to would enjoy our MFM sandwich. I have read all your posts and again, appreciate you great folks putting advice on here but I think until hubby and I can work out our boundaries and limitations, my DP will have to be put on hold.

11-05-2004, 09:54 AM	#15 (permalink)
F16AV8R Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 41 Location: Florida	Re: Want to try DP, but not with hubby in my ass I cannot tell you how much I appreciate all of the thoughtful posts and advice you great people have provided here. I think I used the term "circus-sized" as opposed to stating actual measurements because no one would believe it until they have seen it. Frankly, I have never seen a penis this large before and it is more of a problem than a blessing. In fact, it has been a big problem. I indeed want to give all of myself to my husband. I love him. I am willing to try the recommendations you have suggested but I am not talking about a 9 or 10 inch penis that is a little extra thick here. It is massive and although I am not really in pain per se when we have regular sex, the internal pressure from so much being inside of me is distracting at times. I think we'll try a few more times and I'll give it the old college try. If it doesn't work, oh well, there is so much more to our relationship that is so wonderful I can go without the DP. It is indeed fun and very pleasurable having vaginal sex with him when we go slowly at first and have had a few drinks. If he is not insistent about going all the way in, it can feel incredible. When he gets excited though and trys to pound in deep, the pleasure quickly turns to pain. I want to try a penis anally and wish it could be him. If he were shorter and not as thick, we could do it. Again, we'll give it the old college try. Still, the mere length and girth of his penis gives me serious doubt we'll get much past the head of the penis. I think if he were to allow a smaller penis to take me anally (lets say 8 or 9 inches) he to would enjoy our MFM sandwich. I have read all your posts and again, appreciate you great folks putting advice on here but I think until hubby and I can work out our boundaries and limitations, my DP will have to be put on hold.