[Dr Jekyll]

I'd stick with getting some Viagra for peace of mind. I used to have the same problem when we started swinging, and the knowledge that I have the trusty V with got rid of any performance anxiety... Carry it wherever I swing...

I too will add my voice to swapping back to your own partner... This has widely been reported to help.

If he's stressing about his erection, he'll never get one. Get Viagra (from a doctor), use it for the first time with the couple, and he'll be guaranteed one. The confidence boost may mean he'll never have problems again...

Viagra simply ensures that your penis functions as advertised. It has a side effect for some that it dramatically decreases their recovery time, and the definite effect of stronger erections than you'd normally have...

We also talked about seperate rooms, but many couples dislike that idea. Which is very limiting when choosing potential playmates...