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Hottimes · 10-31-2004, 03:19 PM

My old college girlfriend of 3 years has recently moved in with me. I have often thought that she is "the one" that I would like to spend the rest of my life with. It is becoming more serious now and we have even talked about getting engaged and eventually married. The only problem is that she is not into the lifestyle and has stated that I need to get out of it if we are to be married. Is this a deal-breaker??? If we were to get married, would this later be an issue enough that our relationship would come to an end? Is there anyone out there who has gotten married under similar circumstances that can lend my some helpfull advice?

I appreciate all of your advice.

10-31-2004, 03:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
Hottimes Registered Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 8 Location: Ft Lauderdale, Fl Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Hottimes	Future fiance would like me out of the lifestyle. I NEED YUR HELP!!! My old college girlfriend of 3 years has recently moved in with me. I have often thought that she is "the one" that I would like to spend the rest of my life with. It is becoming more serious now and we have even talked about getting engaged and eventually married. The only problem is that she is not into the lifestyle and has stated that I need to get out of it if we are to be married. Is this a deal-breaker??? If we were to get married, would this later be an issue enough that our relationship would come to an end? Is there anyone out there who has gotten married under similar circumstances that can lend my some helpfull advice? I appreciate all of your advice.