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Originally Posted by raylynne Thanks much, very helpful. But question, what do you mean by this might not happen if there weren't two men involved? |
I think perhaps littlebit54 was suggesting it might not happen if you were having a MFF (not a MFM or couple-swap) ... and thus your husband was entertaining you and another woman, without another male present.
If you are leery of Viagra ... try this:
While Mr. D2S hasn't had performance anxiety, we've been with couples who have. So I asked for advice here on the board for what to do ... and was told to try arranging it so that we switched back to our own spouses for a bit so the other wife could "jumpstart" her husband. (Sometimes all it takes is that special touch of your own spouse.)
If this works for you, you could continue playing with your own spouses (leaving it as a softswap encounter this time around) ... or try swapping again.
Also, make sure you reassure your husband that (1) he's not alone in having performance anxiety, and (2) if it does happening in swap, most women with a little swinging experience are understanding and supportive