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raylynne · 10-27-2004, 08:14 PM

We need anyone's help here. Hubby and I are fairly new to the lifestyle, in fact we've been with men only, but now we have met a couple we really like and would like to further the relationship with them. However, when I am with a gentleman and he's helping or watching, he has trouble getting an erection, he eventually does, but it takes a long time. He says it's because he's so excited at watching me with another man that he just can't perform. Now he's afraid he'll really disappoint a lady when we are with a couple. Any ideas? And thanks for any help you all can give us.

10-27-2004, 08:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
raylynne Active Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 28 Location: midwest Status: couple	Help! Can't get it up with another woman?! We need anyone's help here. Hubby and I are fairly new to the lifestyle, in fact we've been with men only, but now we have met a couple we really like and would like to further the relationship with them. However, when I am with a gentleman and he's helping or watching, he has trouble getting an erection, he eventually does, but it takes a long time. He says it's because he's so excited at watching me with another man that he just can't perform. Now he's afraid he'll really disappoint a lady when we are with a couple. Any ideas? And thanks for any help you all can give us.