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Old 10-26-2004, 04:13 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: Over weight, sagging bodies, and swinging

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Originally Posted by Miss_Piggy
A huge part of attractiveness is in the attitude. How do you improve your attitude? One thing that worked really well for me was just losing a few lbs. Even if losing 5 or 10 lbs still leaves you overweight it's amazing what that little bit will do to your self esteem. Get outside and get moving; develop a love for the things your body can do for you. Focus on the positive and you should find your attitude about your body will improve.
You are so right there, Miss Piggy. I know for me that just getting out and exercising regularly really goes a long way towards helping my attitude towards myself and seeing that I'm doing SOMETHING makes me feel good.

That works with other people as well. It's hard to notice someone's imperfections when you are caught up in their personality. And when it's obvious that someone is happy and feels good it is very infectious.
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