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Old 10-23-2004, 11:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: Gangbang question...should I look for other guys?

Nope - don't do it.

When my wife and I are looking for single men, I have learned that my taste in men is so incredibly far from her taste in men. What I think should trip her trigger is so incredibly far from what actually does trip said trigger.

It may be that she just doesn't care who she gets laid by - in which case, I'd be concerned about playing with someone with so very little discrimination. An "I'll do whoever shows up" attitude gives me the creeps. It could also give me the clap - which I'd prefer to avoid.

Also - hoe can you find guys who are even any good in the sack? I mean, you can't really audition them, can you? It should be up to her to decide if there is chemistry. She likes you, but that doesn't men she'll like who you round up.

On the other hand, she may just assume that as a single male, you have lots of friends. These friends, she may assume, would be similar to you - and since she likes you, she'll like them... And if that is the case, you need to level with her and tell her that you'd be rounding them up off of ad sites, just like she would. And, for her safety and peace of mind, it'd be better if she took care of the invitees...

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