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Old 10-19-2004, 06:09 PM   #10 (permalink)
EvilMJ
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Default Re: confided in best friend, she can't handle it

I was just thinking how hard it is to be a swinger because you have to hide an aspect of your life (or at least I do, some may not agree). We had a really fun weekend but we can't share it with anyone.

I have a friend who has been my friend since grade two, she was in a polyamourous relationship and I know she would understand and not judge, however I can't tell her because we play with our other friend and her husband. I don't want to hurt her feelings but I know that if I told her she would be wondering why I didn't chose her and her husband (no attraction, she is like a sister). So the other couple and I agreed to keep this silent.

sometimes the best way to keep a friendship is to keep certain aspects of your life quiet.
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