The lifestyle can be kind of lonely in this respect, can't it? So few people are really ready to hear this sort of thing. I told a good friend of mine about my husband's and my sexual interests and, although she is a very sexually open person, even somewhat interested in exploring her bisexuality, she's still at the stage where she wants to have all the fun and not let anyone touch her husband. Ok, I understand the curiosity; I was there once. But that's just not fair. She and her husband have been their only sex partners since they were virgins, and she has concerns about loss of sexual interest after the fact. So while she didn't freak when I told her, she just couldn't understand how I could be so non-chalant about the idea of my husband getting it on with another beautiful woman... right in front of me! Uh, yeeeah!? I'm not just non-chalant about it, I quite approve
Just my few thoughts...