We told my best friend about our desires for this lifestyle, and she has problems with it. Now, I would not have told her, but I did not anticipate her having these problems. She has never been particularly uptight about sex, but now she is. Perhaps we've learned that we just shouldn't tell ANYONE about this. What's been your experience? I just find it annoying that you can't be honest with anyone without them becoming all righteous on you.

My opinion is that if she truly is my best friend, then she can accept it and move on. I mean, we've had differences of opinion before on other subjects and we've been through a lot together.