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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 My first thought is that you haven't yet experienced anal sex and you are jumping way ahead if you are thinking about arranging a DP play session with another guy. (Or bringing another woman in.)
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I was thinking the same thing. If you already have a hard time having regular sex with your husband, I honestly can't see you managing to do that while having another man's penis in your ass.
What I would suggest you try first (assuming you haven't already) is buying a dildo or a larger butt plug and use that while having sex with your husband. See how that works out for you before you consider having an actual DP with another guy involved.
If you still want a real DP after that then it's back to your original questions of whether or not to try to convince your hubby to allow you to do something with someone else that you won't do with him.... and I'd have to say no. Just think about how you'd feel in the same situation. Say, for instance, that he would never have oral sex with you but then you started swinging and saw that he was giving other women oral sex. That would hurt you as much as the idea you are trying to push on him hurts him.