Oncewere, loved the way you put it. But I do think that her saying that means you have the right to explore more with her. Get her to read the posts on this site as a first step! Just maybe?
And, if your first wife participated have you ever regretted not making sure that your next wife would before getting married? Just curious. I know that if something ever happened to my current relationship that this would be a very major consideration in any future one.
And furgy, it's nice just to have a glimmer of hope isn't it? Right now my wife has taken even that away.