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Originally Posted by Compersor I don't even mind if the other guy is more handsome, better built, better in bed, better hung, or whatever. On the contrary, I love it when my wife can enjoy some things that I can't offer her. So I don't have to be the best in every respect. And I'd actually love it if she were to tell me these things. |
That certainly echoes my feelings.
I guess I'm lucky in that Red is happy to talk about it after the event, and so am I with her. We both find it a turn on. It doesn't mean that either of us is about to pack our bags and leave - quite the contrary, but I suspect that some will be reluctant to talk about these things due to a perception that the partner may have issues with it. As such this suggests that it may be back to the old communication thing.
Keep on talking and good luck!
CB