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Old 10-16-2004, 10:54 AM   #4 (permalink)
LikeMinds321
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Default Re: Want to try DP, but not with hubby in my ass

My first thought is that you haven't yet experienced anal sex and you are jumping way ahead if you are thinking about arranging a DP play session with another guy. (Or bringing another woman in.)

Anal is different for many reasons: hygiene wise you need to get yourself ready for this type of play. Also, just because you find a man with an average size penis doesn't mean it's going to feel good to you.

I would suggest starting out with you and your husband exploring this by him using his well lubricated fingers (he should wear a latex glove) to massage, relax and stimulate you. You need to get used to feeling the sensations that go along with anal penetration. It is very different than vaginal.

Once you are able to relax your sphincter you might try having your husband use a condom covered dildo in you. Very slowly.

This might give you both the chance to explore this more - together - before jumping into a threesome DP experience that could do more damage than good if you aren't aware of what to expect.

Good luck.

LM

Last edited by LikeMinds321; 10-16-2004 at 11:42 AM. Reason: clarification
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