[oncewere]

I understand completely. My first wife and I swung together, separtely, at parties, you name it, we loved it. She passed away and my current wife will have no part of it. I'm very nostalgic for the old life but I love her more than swinging so I'm satisfied with just being nostalgic. I do follow this site and have submitted several stories from the old days but getting together with others without her would be cheating. The last time I asked her about it she said "welllll if you really want to..... OK." Fortunately I know enough about woman-talk to know that that really means "You do it and you'll suffer for the rest of your life." lol

Hang in there and enjoy your relationship.