Thanks, Rich. That might be a good idea. I wouldn't mind at all if we found a woman who'd like to allow him this pleasure. I can tell you though that none of my girlfriends would even consider allowing him to have vaginal sex with them much less anal sex. I agree with you though...maybe if we can find a willing female and let him take part in what he now feels he is denied, maybe that will help facilitate our DP. Thanks for taking the time to post