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Old 10-16-2004, 03:46 AM   #2 (permalink)
Mike and Jan
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Location: Florida (north-central)
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Default Re: Want to try DP, but not with hubby in my ass

Sometimes people get obsessed with things they're deprived of. I can understand why your husband would feel the way he does but it might be because he's never been allowed anal sex himself.
Have you considered finding a woman who could take him anally? There have to be some couples with wives who could and would love to do it. He could find out what it's like and not feel 'left out.
And just maybe then he'd feel comfortable with you letting the husband join you two in a DP.
Good luck and I really hope you work this out to your mutual satisfaction.
Rich
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