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Mike and Jan · 10-16-2004, 02:16 AM

Spoonmonkey,
Thanks for the nice response. And, I've read a lot of your posts and envy your relationship!
I think you did hit on a good point too. Jealosy and possessiveness probably are a big factor. You'd think after this many years that she'd feel secure in the fact that I'm staying with her..., that I love you and wouldn't leave her for anyone else. And, that the reason I enjoy seeing her enjoying sex with others is because I love her. And, because it's just so damn hot! LOL! You know, come to think of it, she gets upset if I even flirt with our female friends. I guess some folks are just naturally jealous.
Rich

10-16-2004, 02:16 AM	#5 (permalink)
Mike and Jan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 364 Location: Florida (north-central) Status: M. Male	Re: Married to a non-swinger. Spoonmonkey, Thanks for the nice response. And, I've read a lot of your posts and envy your relationship! I think you did hit on a good point too. Jealosy and possessiveness probably are a big factor. You'd think after this many years that she'd feel secure in the fact that I'm staying with her..., that I love you and wouldn't leave her for anyone else. And, that the reason I enjoy seeing her enjoying sex with others is because I love her. And, because it's just so damn hot! LOL! You know, come to think of it, she gets upset if I even flirt with our female friends. I guess some folks are just naturally jealous. Rich
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