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Mike and Jan · 10-15-2004, 06:26 AM

I had read your post and could relate. I think what you're missing is very similar to what I missed back when my wife and I had adventures with other couples. I'd get so aroused and excited with the anticipation, enjoy the excitement of the new people, and most of all enjoy watching my wife let go and have sex. But, afterwards I was let down because I wanted to enjoy the sex with just her for weeks too. She seemed to be too uptight to have sex for days afterwards.
And isn't that one of the main attractions to swinging? Igniting the couples passions?
Rich

10-15-2004, 06:26 AM	#3 (permalink)
Mike and Jan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 364 Location: Florida (north-central) Status: M. Male	Re: Married to a non-swinger. I had read your post and could relate. I think what you're missing is very similar to what I missed back when my wife and I had adventures with other couples. I'd get so aroused and excited with the anticipation, enjoy the excitement of the new people, and most of all enjoy watching my wife let go and have sex. But, afterwards I was let down because I wanted to enjoy the sex with just her for weeks too. She seemed to be too uptight to have sex for days afterwards. And isn't that one of the main attractions to swinging? Igniting the couples passions? Rich
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