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Originally Posted by curiousagain Sometimes if I am holding back that orgasm and do it too long, a point is reached where I can't orgasm. Doesn't mean the woman is doing anything wrong or not doing anything right. Doesn't matter what is done or for for how long it's not going to happen until I remove myself from the sexual situation and "calm down" for a little bit then start over. |
This is the exact situation for my husband and for this reason it doesn't bother me a bit. He enjoys the heck out of giving me great pleasure and is getting so much pleasure in return that I don't worry about it. There was one woman who it bothered greatly and I reassured her it wasn't any big deal, that it wasn't her and that it happens all the time when it's a marathon event.
Now ideally it's nice for both people to come but if it doesn't work out that way then so be it. I know it doesn't have anything to do with me. I wouldn't want a guy to be bothered if I didn't have an orgasm so why would it bother me. I use it as an excuse, "we'll just have to do it again".