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Originally Posted by curiousagain Sometimes if I am holding back that orgasm and do it too long, a point is reached where I can't orgasm. Doesn't mean the woman is doing anything wrong or not doing anything right. Doesn't matter what is done or for for how long it's not going to happen until I remove myself from the sexual situation and "calm down" for a little bit then start over. |
Yup! That's exactly how it works for me. It seems to get desensitised. In fact there have been times when it has turned into a battle of wills - me trying to hold off and the partner of the moment trying so hard to get me there. Net result is usually no orgasm for me, but I certainly enjoy the experience anyway.
CB