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Old 10-12-2004, 08:05 PM   #9 (permalink)
jcbicouple
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Originally Posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty
Remember she has a mind as well as a body. Yes physical attraction is important, but just as important, she has to be interested in you as a person.

The husband is just as important in the decision as his wife. If you pretend he is not there while getting to know one another chances are you won't get far.

If you get a phone number do not make all your calls when you KNOW the husband won't be there.

Don't become a stalker, even unintentionaly. She is not looking for a boyfriend.

We are not trying to make you "Jump through hoops" or "Pass some kind of test". It's really quite simple:
1- She has to be attracted to you.
2- We have to feel comfortable with you.
3- Treat her like you would treat a good friend.
4- When she/we are ready she will make the first move.
Just a note: This applies just as much to single females.
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