 Mr here
I think it all depends on your reasons for getting into swinging. For us it was about MFMs, just like yourself. I love seeing mrs naughty enjoy the added pleasure that an MFM can bring her. All the "talk" that led up to this lifestyle had everything to do with US enjoying an MFM. We have moved into the couples relm of swinging but not because either one of us felt pushed by the other.
Our original fantasy was MFMs and continues to be where we get the most enjoyment. If we stopped everything but MFMs tomorrow it would not bother me a bit.
Don't get me wrong, swinging with couples can be and is fun but I get the most pleasure from her being pleasured and two men giving mrs naughty their undivided attention does just that.
I don't think it is wrong or selfish of your wife to feel that way if that was the whole premice for getting into swinging. You were/are cool with just inviting other men into the bedroom. You are both comfortable with it and you both get great enjoyment out of it.
Now, if the premice for getting into swinging was to be with other couples, not MFMs, then she decided that she did not like you with other women but wanted to keep swinging in strictly an MFM capacity I would have to take issue with that.
You both shared the original fantasy of MFMs and that is as far as she wants to go. I see no problem with that.
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