View Single Post
Old 10-12-2004, 09:05 AM   #1 (permalink)
Compersor
Here to Stay
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Posts: 31
Location: Europe

Compersor hasn't quite let us get to know them yet.
Default wife ok with guys, but doesn't like hubby with women

I have, what I consider to be a bit of a problem. My wife and I have been doing MFM for over a year now. She loves it and I love it. I have known for a long time that she is not into the “bi”-thing. I also know that in the beginning, when we first set out to invite men into our bedroom, she was terribly apprehensive about me possibly not respecting her anymore. On that score I have finally managed to set her mind at ease. I greatly respect my wife and simply consider that without her sexuality (in all its guises) she wouldn’t be complete. What I didn’t know however, and found out recently, is that she absolutely doesn’t want to have any same room couples experiences. The idea of me having it off with another woman doesn’t please her in the least (to say the least). The lucky thing is, that I love MFM, and greatly enjoy the passion and excitement she derives from it. Sex with other women is not my main concern, but somewhere, at some level of consciousness this imbalance seems to bother me. Is there among you guys anybody else who has been in a similar situation, or who could judiciously comment on this problem (if it is a problem – I don’t know yet)? (I have to emphasize that I never introduced my young wife – there is about 20 years between us - to the lifestyle with the ulterior motive of getting some degree of reciprocity out of it. My only intention was to please her and give her excess to greater variety of sexual experiences).
Compersor is offline