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It's changed my life in many ways. Some good, some actually not as good. I'll start with the not as good. We don't hang out with our vanilla friends nearly as often and I feel bad for that. Also I was very close with my mom and we talked about everything but now I don't feel as close to her because I can't tell her everything. She'll ask how I met these new friends we're going to see and I feel so bad about not being honest. This is something I'm working on because it's really important to me that mom and I remain close.


In my marriage it's changed things. I think swinging tests the strenth of love, trust, commitment and knowing our marriage is so strong we can comfortablely pursue this lifestyle has elated us. Our marriage was like a well built race car that was kept in the garage and never taken out. We'll we're taking it out for a drive and taking some of those corners very fast but it's sticking to the road well and just purrs along the way. Knowing that our marriage was that solid in the beginning and now further knowing we can drive it around making it even more fun has really strengthened us even more. Now I think we exude this confidence between us and we just can't get enough of each other.

So it's changed my life for the better as a whole, but there has been some glitches along the way that will be smoothed out over time.