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Old 10-03-2004, 12:31 PM   #13 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: How has swinging changed your life?

Mrs Spoomonkey and I have always been very open with each other - we were best friends before we were married. But there is something about that added depth, the fun flirting because we have "secrets"... Those have been the biggest positive changes.

If there is a negative (and it isn't much of one) it is probably the death of the fantasy, if that makes sense. In fantasy, the couple we meet are always perfect and passionate; the experiences always mind blowing. But - the trade off for that has been an even hotter "marriage bed" at Spoomonkey Ranch.

I wouldn't change it for the world.

Spoomonkey
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