It doesn't bother me at all if we don't play with a couple if Mrs naughty is not turned on by the man, no matter how attractive the wife is.
For me the biggest turn on is knowing that Mrs naughty is turned on. If it's not there for her than its not there for me.
Maybe thats why swinging works so well for us? facelick
When we were
Brand New we both took one for the team once. Not because I didn't care that Mrs Naughty wasn't interested in him or she didn't care that I wasn't interested in the other woman. We both thought the other was having a good time. We have since learned from those experiences and "taking one for the team" doesn't happen any more.
BTW,
We both didn't take one for the team at the same time with the same couple. How funny would that be...Both taking one for the team at the same time thinking the other was enjoying themselves
