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Originally Posted by tinceltoes Size does matter to me. When my husband and I go out, we do the usual routine on visiting cpl. first then go from there on the next visit to a motel. I am a person who likes both oral and intercourse but lately with the past 3 men I only got oral because the men were too small to perform otherwise down below. I guess I was lucky to get that.
I always think after going through 3 men and their size I have a curse put on me so my self-esteem is down because I think I will get the same all the time. I can not just sit there while on the first visit have the male pull down his pants and show me what his package looks like. I do not like the idea of reading measurements online because numbers are deceiving. Just like a pic. Ug!
What is a swinger wife to do with this problem?
When you have men who are no bigger than 5 inches and girth size of a hotdog, I can not enjoy myself. As for how the men feel, I am not them so I can not tell you.
Thanks for your input.
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I'm really kinda shocked to find a comment like this on this board...
I'm wondering, are you in this for the pleasure principle for everyone or just for yourself? You say that you don't know how the men feel...You sure about that? My perception of this is that you're getting these guys hard, taking a peek and then passing judgement on whether or not they are big enough or good enough to be with you, and if you find them lacking, denying them even the chance to even try to pleasure you. How can you say that you don't know how they feel?!
Did you ever think that it's not them that has a problem, but you? Before I got married I was with one guy who was 91/2 inches, and one guy who was 11 and almost as big around as a pop can...but I was also with guys who were no where near those sizes. But did I say oh no, I'm sorry, "Don't want no short dick man", hell no! I found ways to move and things to do while they were inside me to compensate for both of us and let me tell you I learned how to have a damn good time!
Just how would you feel if you were with a man and he said to you, 'I'm sorry, but your pussy just isn't gonna be big enough to satisfy me, I've seen women built like you before and I just know this isn't gonna work. But hey babe, as a consolation, you can blow me. So how would you feel? And another thing, yes, I do think you're jinxed, you need to learn to appreciate people despite their 'short comings'. :rollseyes
You know, if you like big dick, great! But maybe you should ask about the goods before you get down to handling them. Now if you've been lied to, then yes, you definately have a right to be totally peeved and I appologize for the above and I'll write a rant on men, lying and getting over their insecurities...but there isn't really anyone on this board that it would apply to anyone specific since most seem quite secure with who and what they are.