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Old 09-24-2004, 02:09 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: Looks-how important are they to you (then and now)

I would agree with most of what has been said so far, but I would add that we have actually become more picky as time went on. At first we thought the same as you that it would be real hard or rare to find a couple that we found attractive that would also both find us attractive. So with that in mind we tended to not be as picky as we would have been if we thought everyone thought we were attractive and wanted to play with us. Now, I'm not trying to say everyone we meet thinks we are a hot item, but a lot more people seem to think that than I would have thought in the beginning. The result of this realization has been that now our standards have risen somewhat and their are a lot of couples that make us offers that we decline, than their were when we first started and treated every offer like it was the last one we would ever get.
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