Laura and I don't tend to play with couples and this could be one of the major reasons. We find it very hard to find two other people with the right personality to fit both of us.
Personality is the main thing with us more then looks. There has been many times at the club that Laura will end up playing with guys that I would never have thought she was attracted to but after meeting them I found it was their personality that she was attracted to.
I am very much the same way. Looks are somewhere on the list of things we look at but it tends to not lean towards the "pretty people." I am not saying that all "pretty people" have no personality and please, no one take offense but many times they are more into the showing off and looking good then getting down and playing.
Besides, they all look good in the dark!