Dito to most of these replies.
For me attraction is all about personality, however I still have to have a certain amount of physcial attraction. I don't need a Barbie/Ken type, you don't have to be hard bodies, I appreciate men and women of all shapes and sizes! An engaging smile, intense eye contact, good sense of humor, sometimes just this combination can be a turn on for me. Let's face it, my hubby is 40, has a little bit of the beer belly and love handles, but I'm still attracted to him.
Mr&Mrs-naughty, I don't think you are shallow, I think you were honest and you can't flame someone for that!