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Originally Posted by exploringideas
So I'm curious, as one's experience expands, does it become less and less about a person's looks and more about the action?  |
This is a great question and one I am eager to see the answer to from those experienced in the lifestyle.
Mr LM and I are new to swinging - we've only played with one couple - and agreeing on them took reviewing many couples through three sites. A peron's looks are important to me, however my guidelines for what is physically appealing is much broader than my husband's. I came across a dozen couples I would have contacted if not for my husband's veto.
How a profile is written still determines whether we will be interested in pursuing them, no matter how good they look, if they have a bad profile we are not interested.
But how do you know a person's "action" is going to be good until you play...and isn't some amount of physical attraction necessary first, before you decide to play?
LM