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Old 09-23-2004, 11:00 PM   #1 (permalink)
exploringideas
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Default Looks-how important are they to you (then and now)

I am full of questions the last few days!!

I am just curious. How important are looks to you when it comes to hooking up with a couple? For those of you who have been in the lifestyle for a while, did your "pickiness" (if you had any to begin with) decrease as time goes on?

Obviously, I am very new to this and hubby has agreed (with a big smile) to join in on the action. We consider ourselves to be a very nice looking couple, but I worry that the couples we find attractive won't find us attractive. I placed an ad in the last couple of days and have received a TON of responses, but there has only been one couple that has struck my fancy (haven't "shown" them to hubby yet-- just told him about them.) I felt bad clicking on the "not interested" button for the others that were not people I felt, either by their picture or profile, that we would not be attracted to.

So I'm curious, as one's experience expands, does it become less and less about a person's looks and more about the action?
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