Karl and I have just gotten into swinging a few months ago (only been with 3 couples so far) and got into a conversation last night about certain types of play that we have decided that will remain sacred only to us, and not when we're playing with others. We're wondering if other couples have similar agreements with each other as we do.
For example-Karl and I will "toss each other's salad", have anal sex together, I will swallow during oral sex with him, and he won't be swallowed during oral sex by any other females. These are the activities that we came up with that we feel should just be between us.
Anyone else or are we prudes?