if you tried it once and there was a problem I would not try it again until that problem is resolved. Sounds like he has one foot in the door and the other is out. You have to be sure.
We havent had group sex or an MFM yet (we were meant to tonight but our male friend had work on tonight and he lives pretty far away...Tokyo and we are in the north of Japan.....so we have to keep it for another time
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Anyhow I will be honest when we have sex we talk about it...well mostly me (about the MFM) and everything is all erotic and sexy but when I cum it all changes. I think "why did I say that stuff....why was I thinking that stuff??".
All his urges of fantasy were probably gone the next morning this is why he felt that way.
Julie sorry I dont mean to jump on someone elses thread but can something be done about that? I mean I do want to try an MFM and I am secure enough however after I cum I get the guilty feeling.