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Old 09-10-2004, 09:43 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: what is it with men

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Originally Posted by WesternSwing
You think? So since I don't work out everyday I don't enjoy sex as much as you? I've HAD boring sex with uber-fit women. I'll buy the truth behind it being healthier to have better blood flow, higher endurance, yadda, yadda, yadda. But that it makes for better sex? I guess if your idea of sex is banging away like a porn star, then it does. If your idea of sex goes beyond that shallow view of what sex is, then enjoyment is based on many more things than just physical appearance and "endurance".
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What I think Bobtrent was saying is that the person who's more fit will have better sex. Case in point: Drew got some bad news after getting a physical and decided to start going to the gym. Now, he has a lot more stamina (yippee for me!) and generally feels more like the hottie that I think he is. It's not so much about being a hardbody, it's more about being healthier and in better shape and how you feel about yourself.

At the risk of being flamethrow , I do think that there are a lot of men that are with women that are considerably better looking than they are. How many old men in hollywood are with young, beautiful wives or girlfriends(Katherine Zeta Jones, Calista Flockheart, Laura Flynn Boyle, and the ultimate, Anna Nicole Smith)? Not so many old women with young men. It's the same in real life and in the lifestyle. We haven't had a really hard time finding couples that we both find attractive, but we have run quite a few where the scale tips far to the woman's side.
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