The secret to successful swinging is communication. If you have boundaries and talk to each other - before, during, after - then the slope is much reduced to the occasional gentle grade. Swinging does not have to "morph" into anything that you do not want it to. Sharing a couple is not the first step to your husband going to hedo alone with some drunken floozy - actually, I think the first step in that direction is getting an earring when you're over the age of forty...
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Dito to what Spoomonkey has said above! I agree with the conversations and communication being very important! My hubby and I started out with just adding another male friend for fun in the sack....actually my hubby is the one not interested in adding a female in the mix at this time! So it really is all about what the TWO of you want together.
