 Re: what is it with men
I've come to realize over the years that there are exceptions to almost every rule.When I was younger I used to play alot of basketball and for the most part,if we saw someone come on the court that looked out of shape we would usually put our slowest guy on him.9/10 times it was a formula that would work but theres always that 1 who will surprise you and make you look stupid.I have learned the hard way to never judge a book by it's cover.Some of my past gf's weren't always the best looking and I often heard by other women "why are you with her,you're a good looking guy who can do better".Sometimes charisma ,attitude and personality can far exceed a persons' exterior looks.We all have our preferences but if it really came down to it,I would rather be with someone average or below in the looks dept if they can make me laugh and smile rather than a drop dead goregous robot with no personality or sense of humor.
I think Julie's suggestion would work out best for you but sometimes giving people the benefit of the doubt by talking to them can really pay off.
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