Like robnbarb, I cum quick the first time around, but I'm aided by a 0-recovery time and good staying power after that initial excitement is over. So I've never had any complaints.
We tried some of the condoms with a desensitizer in them to slow down the whole thing because I was worried (unfounded worries I discovered). They worked good. The only complaint I have is afterward I went back down on her and within a minute or so my lips were numb!
We all four still laugh about it.
Mr. WS