My husband and I are just entering into the lifestyle... we are going to our first soft swap party this weekend to get our feet wet. Wish us luck and much fun!
However, he has a problem with premature ejaculation. I am 23 and he is 26. During intercourse he can only last 30 seconds if that. If I give him a blowjob he lasts a little longer.... for about a minute or two. We have compensated this with lots of foreplay and toys for me before and after he comes until he is ready again. However, it is really embarrassing to him.
Does anyone have any suggestions to help him last longer? Do the densensitizing lotions really work? What about those OTC stamina pills? And what exactly is Viagra for? From what I am aware it is just help get an erection, but does it help maintain? He has no problem getting an erection and is ready to go again after about 5-10 minutes.
Is this a problem for a lot of men? Do a lot of women get upset with this?
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
J
p.s. I tried to register yesterday but I still haven't received the e-mail... otherwise I would not have posted as a guest.