 Re: what is it with men
It makes me sad that people can base other's worth on their physical apperance. People automatically assume that because you don't have a perfect body that somehow you are not taking care of yourself, don't eat properly or are unfit. I have had a weight problem all my life and I can tell you honestly (and after much go between with my doctor) that genetics have dealt me a raw deal. My eating habits are very healty, I am quite active and care strongly about my appearnce, however I find it EXTREMLY difficutlt to lose weight. I have had people look down at me in the past when I was heavier and they made me feel like I was somehow beneath them.
Sorry about my little soapbox .
I can appreciate that physical first impressions are important but sometimes you have to take the time to appreciate someone's inner beauty and personality. I have said it before, I can meet the most attractive man in the world, but if after talking to him for any lenght of time and find out he is complete ass, then any sexual attraction I had will be gone. Conversly, a man who is not gorgeous can become more attractive to me if their personality is good.
I think everyone's points in this thread are vaild and as others have said, this is just my own opinion.
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