 Re: Playing with cheaters
Ok, just our two cents here, but we’d never knowingly play with someone who was trying to get us to help him or her cheat. We agree with the general sentiment that swinging is a shared experience that involves trust and openness. Cheating, by definition, is the antithesis of open and trusting.
Now, with that said, if someone has cheated in the past, but they and their partner are now (in the present) in a seemingly healthy place and playing together, with each other’s consent and enthusiasm, who are we to make value judgments about their relationship? We’re not psychologists or marriage counselors, and frankly we avoid drama like the plague, lol. We’re here to have fun, and we’re far more likely to avoid someone who tried to tell us “dirty laundry” about another couple, than the couple in question.
But hey, this is just us our perspective. We’re also bright enough people to acknowledge that there are no absolutes, and our opinion isn’t “right,” it’s just our point of view.
Great Topic!
DnA
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