A few decades ago when I was in my twenties swinging was so much easier.
You went to a party, took your clothes off and had sex with someone. On a slow night you might have even asked their name. When you where done, you either had more sex or you left the party.
If I had ever even thought you could have so much drama in this lifestyle I would NEVER have experienced it. Talk about making life hard this one has to take the cake. I have seen movies with less drama!
My personal view is that everyone mentioned in that above drama needs to take a break and think about what their life is really all about and maybe, JUST MAYBE come back and experience the lifestyle again in 5 or 10 years.
Why would anyone want to do what you have to your own life? This is all about fun and I see NO FUN in what you have written there. Being young was so much fun and I can even remember it.
If my life had been like that drama there I would have become a drunk in hopes that I could not remember any of it.