The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Drama with another couple. Why are we bothering?

fun_pairTX · 09-01-2004, 04:13 PM

What the hell am I doing? Why can’t I stop worrying about this and have a good time? Why do I keep going back for more?

I'm sorry to say that we don't know what you are doing either unless it is some form of penance. Let them show their true colors, but do it while you are elsewhere, you know it won't take too long.

Maybe you should open yourselves to the idea of playing with people that are a little older, say in their thirties. You should find a lot less pettiness, bullshit, and drama.
I'm 50, Mrs Fun is 40, and we find that older swingers are "in general" much more stable. There are exceptions and assholes in our age range, but it seems that there are far fewer. Maybe the real flamers just give up and drop out.

09-01-2004, 04:13 PM	#5 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	Re: Drama with another couple. Why are we bothering? What the hell am I doing? Why can’t I stop worrying about this and have a good time? Why do I keep going back for more? I'm sorry to say that we don't know what you are doing either unless it is some form of penance. Let them show their true colors, but do it while you are elsewhere, you know it won't take too long. Maybe you should open yourselves to the idea of playing with people that are a little older, say in their thirties. You should find a lot less pettiness, bullshit, and drama. I'm 50, Mrs Fun is 40, and we find that older swingers are "in general" much more stable. There are exceptions and assholes in our age range, but it seems that there are far fewer. Maybe the real flamers just give up and drop out.
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