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Originally Posted by LadyCleo He said he can’t because he doesn’t care that much. Asshole. I told him that I figure that now that they have new swinger friends, I guess that they have no need for us anymore and he’s pushing my buttons to piss me off enough to avoid them. I think that he was starting to feel something for me and perhaps being an asshole is his way of backing off. It is definitely reminiscent of how he treated Monica after they stopped seeing each other privately.
So, now, I’m feeling uncomfortable. They are friends with the people that we are friends with. They are seeing the nice Bill and Hillary not the asshole that he’s being to us. And if I say anything, I’m causing drama. I don’t want that. I think that he doesn’t want to play with me anymore…that is perfectly ok with me because all he does is piss me off. But, I think that Hillary is still interested in playing with my husband but Bill has put his foot down and made it impossible to do so. Plus, I saw Bill playing with someone else at the club while his wife was upstairs. So much for only playing together.
So, I guess my question is twofold, what the hell am I doing? Why can’t I stop worrying about this and have a good time? Why do I keep going back for more?
I know that he will show his true colors to our friends sooner or later. How do I cope with it b4 they figure it out? Bill and Hillary are the new meat, so everyone is interested in meeting them. |
Girl, run, don't walk, from this situation! And, let your friends come to their own conclusions abou this couple. I would have been over these folks 8 paragraphs ago! You've already said that he's an asshole, that she has a drinking problem, there's an affair involved and bill and hill don't ever talk about what they really want. How many reasons do you need to let this go? As for being friends of your friends, I would keep my trap shut. If they're smart, the will find out about Bill, Hill and Monica soon enough. If you say something now, it will look like sour grapes--as if you are upset because they no longer want to play. Don't try to fix it, don't try to be the protector of your friends...just go. You said Bill and Hill are the new meat....this one's going to spoil pretty quickly with everyone else too.