I agree, this was a man to avoid.
He's not really part of a couple as he has no seeming respect for his partner. Where's the unity? He wants to swing with you by enticing you with what he calls a 'freak'

because he doesn't care enough about her to be jealous and violent. Grreeaattt.... He sure sounds like an openminded and fun person to be with, no rage or 'women are people too' issues to work out for him!
Also...with his attitude towards his current woman, just what does he REALLY think about the married woman he's hoping to be with?
This attitude makes me wish I could 'zap' people through instant messanger.

(Which I wouldn't do because I'm a peaceful person...but it's a tempting thought).
As for people using 'dawg' and 'u r' and god forbid 'd00d'... *shudders*
Well, when I was an EverQuest girl I wouldn't group with people who were like that...and I don't swing with people NOW who are like that. Maybe I'm just needlessly biased, but...if they're too lazy to type out the word 'you'...are they really going to be energetic in bed?
Mrs. 2play