Wow, Lovebj... I feel a bit... I don't know... Wounded?
I know exactly what you are saying because we look at some men and that is the off switch for us, too. But, damn, we just say it to eachother. If I made a generalized comment like that publically about women I'd be flamed. :slam" Ouch.
Not all men are like that. We have found plenty of couples we are attracted to, and just as many we aren't. And at least half of those are because we weren't atttracted to the female.
Mr. WS