We have the same problem....wife baitng is the top of our pet peeves....visual physical atttraction is our first step in setting up any kind of meeting. I think my wife and I are decent looking...

she is much more attractive than I, but "I aint Fugly either"..heheheheh. We both are fit, not hardbodies but in nice shape...and finding an attractive woman is never a problem...but my wife is the same way...she WILL never take one for the team..nor do I EVER expect her to do so. So to all the dudes who..lets say..forget to clip the ear/nose hairs...

cant pass up that EXTRA slice of ?????....whatever???, and who don't tend themselves in a way that (WE) see fit...we have no problem with ya....we just move on to the next couple. Sometimes there is a huge connection I sense with the female half...but the male walks in the room and it fizzles like a limp dick. Before I get bashed...remember this is OUR preference, and I am only speaking for myself and thankfully my wife!