[curiousagain]

I am sure more of the story will come out in parts. I certainly didn't mean to vilifie anyone.

I won't go into my profession or such but yes, you're right it would be good if you had a dimmer switch but addictions are either on or off.

I am most certainly glad to hear he would be glad to live monogamous but maybe while he's at it, he could quit asking about it???

I have said too much now and had already said I was at a loss for words.

So be it.

Good luck to you both