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Vespertine · 08-25-2004, 06:43 PM

Dito to all the excellent advice given!

Some people just can't swing. Period. There is nothing wrong with monogomy.
This type of lifestyle obviously isn't for you, ophelia. Don't beat yourself up because of it. Why force yourself into something you'll probably regret?
If you let him persuade you into doing this it might potentially cause your marriage serious irreparable harm.

Your wants and desires are just as important as his! Stand firm!

If your husband can't understand that then maybe he's the one that needs therapy. He married you. He didn't marry a swinger. He already made his choice.

08-25-2004, 06:43 PM	#7 (permalink)
Vespertine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: "Taking one for the Team"? Dito to all the excellent advice given! Some people just can't swing. Period. There is nothing wrong with monogomy. This type of lifestyle obviously isn't for you, ophelia. Don't beat yourself up because of it. Why force yourself into something you'll probably regret? If you let him persuade you into doing this it might potentially cause your marriage serious irreparable harm. Your wants and desires are just as important as his! Stand firm! If your husband can't understand that then maybe he's the one that needs therapy. He married you. He didn't marry a swinger. He already made his choice.
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